A Much Deserved Date

Mike and I went on the first "real" date in a very long time last night. We have both been a bit bogged down by the kids, work, projects around the house, callings, etc., etc. We have basically allowed life to jeapordize our alone time together. I love my kids. I love my life. I love my job. But I don't want to allow any of those to get in the way of my relationship with my husband. So when I got home from work yesterday Mike suggested we find a babysitter and go out, just the two of us. I was a bit hesitant at first, thinking of all the things we could accomplish if we stayed home and worked on the house and the yard. And then it hit me... duh! Those projects can wait until next week. My time with my dear husband is not something to put aside so I can finish some project (just to start another).

So we found somebody who could come watch the kids with only about 45 minutes notice. I quickly made the kids dinner and we went out.

Now, this may not sound like the most spectacular date, but honestly, it was one of the best ones I have been on yet! We had dinner at Cafe Rio and then we went riding. We rode our bikes for at least an hour and a half. We talked about everything and nothing and all of it in between. We laughed together. He was playful. I was carefree. It felt wonderful to just be.

As we got to the end of the trail we took a break and were talking about different vacations we would like to take. I was standing there, looking at him and the sight of him took my breath away. I felt butterflies in my stomach; I reached forward and gave him a nice big smooch. At that moment I remembered why I love him so very much!

We got back on our bikes and continued back the way we came. He even showed off for me a little. I almost felt like we were two high school kids again, just hanging out and having a good time.

I thoroughly enjoyed my evening. He has promised me we will go riding together at least once a month (weather permitting). He is going to take me somewhere new next time. He isn't quite as competetive as he was a little while ago. I fear I may eat my words though. He is riding his bike to and from work nearly every day... that is 2 hours of daily riding for him. His legs are pretty tough and he is a much more experienced rider than I am. But, at least we have found that no matter what, it is one more thing we enjoy doing together.

So, I guess my point is I have recently learned a great lesson... communication is key. Time together is essential. And fun is a definite must!

I feel lighter today. I feel re-energized! I even feel about 5 years younger. All because I took the time to share a moment with my sweetheart.